A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM BONNIE KAYE

If you are a gay/bisexual man who is seeking to come out to your wife or straight girlfriend, I know how difficult this step can be. Remember, you have no choice in your sexuality, but you do have a choice about keeping this secret from your mate.

By making the choice to be honest, you are showing the greatest form of love to the woman you love. There is no "good" or "right" time to reveal this news. However, the sooner you take the step, the easier it will be for you to move ahead in your life and have peace of mind.

If you need help on how to proceed, I have Gay Husbands who have lived through this experience and will be happy to give you the assistance that you need. I will be here for you at any time you need me.
I will also be here for your wife when she needs support after you reveal this news.

Remember, there is nothing worse than living a lie. The sooner you can reveal the truth, the better your lives will be. You will go through a lot of pain and turmoil in the beginning, but you will be doing both of you the biggest favor of your lives. To get support for your next step, just drop me a note and I will start setting you up with the support you need immediately.